Sontag gave birth to David when she was only nineteen, and it gave her pleasure when, as a young adult, he was taken for her brother. When she came back she put David to bed and then she said, Guess what? She said she might be ill again, might have some kind of blood cancer. Once she died, I asked the other people in the room to leave. Nunez, who was twenty-three-year-old David Rieffs twenty-five-year-old girlfriend and lived in the apartment with him and Sontag for more than a year, stresses that the time Im talking about was beforebefore the grand Chelsea penthouse, the enormous library, the rare editions, the art collection, the designer clothes, the country house, the personal assistant, the housekeeper, the personal chef., Nunezs short book (its a hundred and forty pages) raises the ethical question that Nunez herself must have wrestled with: Is it ever O.K. [8][9] His 2016 article in The Guardian, "The cult of memory: when history does more harm than good"which argues that some mass atrocities are better forgotten[10]sparked a debate at the International Center for Transitional Justice. He, knowing that the treatment has almost no chance of succeeding, tells her what she wants to hear. I knew children of well-known people in my school and other places. Vanity Fair Archive. She writes of the double dates that she and David went on with Susan and the poet Joseph Brodsky. . His second wife and widow Alison Douglas Knox died December 12, 2011. Rieff, David 1952- views 2,396,422 updated RIEFF, David 1952- (David Sontag Rieff) PERSONAL: Born September 28, 1952, in Boston, MA; son of Philip Rieff (a university professor) and Susan Sontag (a writer and critic). by David Rieff, David Reiff ( 24 ) $13.99 In a shocking and deeply disturbing tour de force, David Rieff, reporting from the Bosnia war zone and from Western capitals and United Nations headquarters, indicts the West and the United Nations for standing by and doing nothing to stop the genocide of the Bosnian Muslims. ISBN-13: 978-0300182798. Susan Sontag married Rieff the following year. Photograph: Everett Collection/Rex Features. In February, 1960, she lists all the things that I despise in myself. Features DEBRA WINGS IT February 1987 By Arthur Lurow. And I really looked. D avid Rieff Granta, 16.00 IN TRYING to pay a fitting tribute to his mother, Susan Sontag, David Rieff offers a partial and self-centred account of her final years. Swimming in a Sea of Death: A Son's Memoir. It's all at UCLA. By David Rieff. Do you lie? I hope the book is helpful in that way. It remains a mystery why she married because when the marriage appears in the notebooks, the notebooks glide to a halt. But she was one to whom it was just terrible news. But I didnt like her. He was, Moser writes, speaking for many others. Copyright 2023 Salon.com, LLC. Twice before, your mother had cancer and survived. But you know there will be future biographies of Susan Sontag. So why should she have made our lives easier by going gracefully? Welcome; Issues; But she didn't want to hear it. She knew more people, did more things, read more, went to more places (all this apart from the enormous amount of writing she produced) than most of the rest of us do. After a 30-year silence, the gloomy social theorist Philip Rieff is back with four books. From 2000 until 2014 I worked exclusively as a pit reporter, interviewing drivers, fans, owners and sponsor executives. I don't want to romanticize the end of life, but we never had the kinds of conversations I would've liked to have had with her. It will be interesting to see whether Benjamin Mosers authorized biography, Sontag: Her Life and Work (Ecco), which draws heavily on the diaries, makes more of a stir. I don't know that being cheerful is better than being a melancholy person. His father, whom Sontag divorced, was Philip Rieff, author of Freud: The Mind of the Moralist. Sontag was accused of humorlessness, but in fact she was guilty only of high-mindedness. I put six questions to David Rieff. Sontag did not want to be an academic; she wanted only to write. . David Rieff. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except with the prior written permission of Cond Nast. Is there anything Susan Sontag doesnt want to know? I'm not Solon the law giver. He was Philip Rieff, a twenty-nine-year-old professor of sociology, for whom she worked as a research assistant, and to whom she stayed married for eight years. It's just prurient as far as I'm concerned. There's no gushing between mother and son or deathbed reconciliations. How many of us, who did not start out with Sontags disadvantages, have taken the opportunity that she pounced on to engage with the worlds best art and thought? I'm sure he's a good doctor, but his human skills were not exactly brilliant. Eventually, I did enough work so people got bored connecting me to my mother. If there's one thing I'm vain about, it's that I'm willing to stare facts in the face. In work, I dont want to be reduced to my life. Wasn't there a kind of existential dread? His books have focused on issues of immigration, international conflict, and humanitarianism. Conversations about the past. By signing up, you agree to our User Agreement and Privacy Policy & Cookie Statement. November 19, 2015 Letters From the December 7, 2015, Issue Quantum of. In an essay from 2005, Wayne Koestenbaum wrote, At no other writers name can I stare entranced for hours on endonly Susan Sontags. tell funny things) in his presence. Mildred, Susans mother, who accompanied Jack on these trips, was a vain, beautiful woman who came from a less raw Jewish immigrant family. I didn't feel that my interests could be put ahead of that. Thank you for signing up, fellow book lover! 1950 Sontag marries Philip Rieff, a young teacher at Chicago, after a 10-day courtship. [Pause] I took it for granted in the world that I grew up in. There is, but it's contained in that sentence. Why is she going to pick up her son? Coming back to my mother's previous experience with breast cancer, I thought, "Well, don't leap to conclusions here. But I don't think she would have repudiated a lot of the essays she wrote. Penguin to publish "classic" Roald Dahl books after backlash. He said, "If you want to fight, if what matters to you is not quality of life" And my mother said, "I'm not interested in quality of life." Also learn how He earned most of networth at the age of 68 years old? Of her marriage to Philip Rieff, she claimed that "not only was I Dorothea [from George Eliot's Middlemarch] but that I had married Mr. Causaubon." A comic touch in connection with their divorce is that Rieff and Sontag apparently came to blows over who would get to keep the couple's collection of back issues of Partisan Review. 1952 David Rieff is born in Boston, Massachusetts, the only son of Susan and. After first describing the crisis and its . So I don't think she was at all unique. Her early essays are addressed to the ten or twenty people in the English-speaking world who would not blanch at sentences like these, from her essay on the philosopher E.M.Cioran: One recognizes, in this Roumanian-born writer who studied philosophy at the University of Bucharest and who has lived in Paris since 1937 and writes in French, the convulsive manner characteristic of German neo-philosophical thinking, whose motto is: aphorism or eternity. His books have focused on issues of immigration, international conflict, and humanitarianism. As. Why have you taken this active role in your mother's work? Two years go missing. Illness as Metaphor (1978), her polemic against the pernicious mythologies that blame people for their illnesses, with tuberculosis and cancer as prime exemplars, was a popular success as well as a significant influence on how we think about the world. By David Rieff Trade Paperback LIST PRICE $18.95 PRICE MAY VARY BY RETAILER Get a FREE ebook by joining our mailing list today! There was much she could have done, and gay activists implored her to do the most basic, most courageous, most principled thing of all, he writes. 100% CAUCASIAN Our ethnicity data indicates the majority is Caucasian. She found a physician at the great cancer center in New York, Memorial Sloan-Kettering, a brilliant man who had all the human skills the first doctor did not. Thanks to the cryptic style in which it is written, Sacred Order/Social Order is a tremendously difficult work to read one critic compared it to "chewing ball bearings; every once in a while there is a cherry".In it, Rieff does, finally, offer something like a schematic for his theory of culture, delivered in strange expository passages sandwiched in between his close readings of . Despite his initial support of the tenets of Liberal internationalism, he was critical of American policies and goals in the Iraq War. Rieff refers to writing as "the family olive oil business." "My father was to the right of. Mosers story of the good-looking young ex-faculty wife/Ph.D. She did more things in the world than I do. David Rieff. I think it's the commonplace guilt of survivors. Still, throughout our interview, he displayed his own brand of remarkable candor. Oh, you never set the record straight. If Mosers feelings about Sontag are mixedhe always seems a little awed as well as irked by herhis dislike for Philip Rieff is undiluted. There is no question David Rieff is the most famous & most loved celebrity of all the time. How should she be remembered? were often strained and at times very difficult. None of this diminishes the force that the memoir conveys of the deep currents of love that flowed between mother and son and of the intensity of Rieffs feeling of (survivors) guilt. by David Rieff | Editorial Reviews. She had this lethal blood cancer and, basically, there was no treatment. She reveled in being; it was as straightforward as that. He said, "Well, the best place to have this transplant would be at the Fred Hutchinson Center at the University of Washington Hospital in Seattle.". They're stand-alone projects. And that's all I propose to say about Annie Leibovitz. He is not above quoting interviewees who saw fit to question Davids devotion to Sontag during her horrible last year. She was somebody for whom extinction -- death -- was unbearable. Moser takes Sontag at her word and is as unillusioned about her as she is about herself. There are certainly religious traditions that don't believe in an afterlife. She became the model of an intellectual woman who had both great flair and moral profundity. I think the latter comment is in the context of talking about guilt that I think all survivors feel. Before the transplant, I thought the odds were bad. That Matthiessen was queer. And I didn't want to go through that. There seems to be a good deal of bitterness packed into that short sentence. Jan 2000 - Dec 201516 years. All public knowledge, to be sure, but who the hell am I to go advertising other peoples sexual habits? Her memoir, Sempre Susan, chronicles those few years she spent with Sontag and Rieff. In a tender account of her final illness, her son David Rieff recalls how he colluded with his mother's fantasy that she wasn't dying - and what this ultimately cost him after she had gone, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, America, 1967: David Rieff and mother Susan Sontag. . He was Roger Straus, the head of Farrar, Straus, who published both The Benefactor and Against Interpretation and, Moser writes. You have been a writer for many years, but to my knowledge, it's only been quite recently that you've written this directly about your mother. The child of the alcoholic is plagued by low self-esteem, always feeling, no matter how loudly she is acclaimed, that she is falling short, he writes. By David Glenn. What I discovered was unexpected,. They wrote her off in the '70s. (Examples: the philosophical aphorisms of Lichtenberg and Novalis; Nietzsche of course; passages in Rilkes Duino Elegies; and Kafkas Reflections on Love, Sin, Hope, Death, the Way.). I have the impression that this is the way your mother had to die. American non-fiction writer and policy analyst, International Center for Transitional Justice, Crimes of War: What the Public Should Know, In Praise of Forgetting: Historical Memory and Its Ironies, "Soros Foundations Network 2002 Annual Report", "David Rieff, Melbourne University Press", "Muscular Utopianism: I used to be a liberal interventionist. Help me believe I might make it." On this Wikipedia the language links are at the top of the page across from the article title. Of course she knew who was opening the door. When I asked her about one of her early critiques of the novel, in which she wrote, "I could not stand the omnipotent author showing me that's how life is, making me compassionate and tearful," she called that comment "juvenilia," and said, "It's really hard to be nailed to what one wrote 35 or 40 years ago." He was a commander in the Armenian army in Nagorno-Karabakh fighting Azerbaijan during the First Nagorno-Karabakh War in the early 1990s.. Melkonian left the United States and arrived in Iran in 1978 during the beginning of . But she is most famous for those essays she wrote in the '60s and '70s. by David Rieff To accuse President Obama of being exceptional in his refusal to embrace American exceptionalism has been a perennial staple of discourse among hawkish conservatives intent on. You mean the Macaulay Culkin syndrome? To revisit this article, select My Account, thenView saved stories, To revisit this article, visit My Profile, then View saved stories, Two volumes of Susan Sontags diaries, edited by her son, David Rieff, have been published, and a third is forthcoming. So not just her papers, but the books, too? This is all very new territory to me. As David Rieff points out in his illuminating study, In Praise of Forgetting: Historical Memory and Its Ironies, by 2045 the last survivors of Nazi atrocities will be dead. It's funny. I was one of those kids who was always writing stories and thoughts and all that. If I'm going to edit stuff about her life in the '50s, I'm the only one alive who would know about it directly. People visiting for the first time were clearly surprised to find the celebrated middle-aged writer living like a grad student. But all the decisions about her burial are decisions that I made, trying to think through what I thought she wanted. But that's impossible if you decide not to acknowledge the fact of dying. Herausgekommen ist kein Buch ber das Sterben, sondern eines ber . Her arm is draped over your shoulder. Even though she did say, "Don't lie to me.". Sontags pencilled notes in a banal brochure of the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society inspire Rieffs reflection on that astonishing mix of gallantry and pedantry that was one of her hallmarks. He notes my own grave failings as a person (above all, I think, my clumsiness and coldness). The voices of the two characters fuse in a terrifyingly assonant duet. Rieff (who did not credit her) got a job at Brandeis University, and in the. During this time, I began my transition to the . Refresh and try again. She was much more interested in experimental art when she was young than she became later in life. Why people capture imaginations is a mysterious process. I was coming back from about a month in Israel/Palestine, where I was trying to do a story on Yasser Arafat. She didn't want to be an essay writer, but she continued to write essays, although they came harder and harder throughout her career. In 1938, while in China, Jack died, of tuberculosis, leaving Mildred with five-year-old Susan and two-year-old Judith to raise alone. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy and Cookie Statement and Your California Privacy Rights. Swimming in a Sea of Death: A Son's Memoir is published by Granta, 12.99. . Her novel The Volcano Lover (1992), a less universally appreciated work, became a momentary best-seller. . One of our more tiresome national cliches holds that the Irish can never forget while the . Susan was very interested in being morally pure, but at the same time she was one of the most immoral people I ever knew. to violate the privacy that friends, dead or alive, assumed to be inviolate when they allowed you to know them? Amry was not wrong. However, Mosers exasperation with Sontag is fuelled by something that lies outside the problematic of biographical writing. In 2004, his mother, Susan Sontag, died from a brutal form of blood cancer, myelodysplastic syndrome. What I will say, though, is that when I wrote this book, I thought a lot about what I'd say and what I wouldn't say. She wasn't focused on the present or any of us. She refused to accept any consolation from the hope of an afterlife. No, I think I became a writer in spite of her. ", "At the Point of a Gun: Democratic Dreams and Armed Intervention. But in the sixties Sontag struggled to survive as a writer who didnt teach. Philip Rieff (December 15, 1922 - July 1, . Intimidated? Rieff chose to bury her in Paris' Montparnasse cemetery, steps from Simone de Beauvoir, and in the posthumous company of Jean-Paul Sartre, Emile Cioran, and Raymond Aron. You were probably 12 or 13 at the time. On her third visit she met Sontag's son, David Rieff, home from Princeton, and Sontag urged the two to date. Rieff has portrayed his mother's final months in 'Swimming in a Sea of Death,' a beautiful and very somber memoir about mortality. She followed Rieff to the places of his academic appointments (among them Boston, where Sontag did graduate work in the Harvard philosophy department), became pregnant and had a then perforce illegal abortion, became pregnant again, and gave birth to her son, David. Moser cites a document that he found among Sontags unpublished papers in which she lists thirty-six people she had slept with between the ages of fourteen and seventeen, and which included men as well as women. In her later years, she had a relationship with Annie Leibovitz, whom Rieff avoids discussing in his memoir, except for. The standard time between diagnosis and death is nine months, and there are no drugs that work more than a few months to keep your blood counts where they're supposed to be. CAREER: Farrar, Straus & Giroux, Inc., The courtesan analogy may be less ludicrous when applied to the Annie Leibovitz period than to the Roger Straus one. Both a memoir and an investigation, Swimming in a Sea of Death is David Rieff's loving tribute to his mother, the writer Susan Sontag, and her final battle with cancer. A contributing writer to the New York Times Magazine, and a past contributor to Salon, he's reported on war-ravaged countries and carved out his own reputation as an acute analyst of foreign policy. There's a certain grace that can follow. She didnt like to sleep. If she had survived the bone-marrow transplant (as she had survived the dire treatments for two earlier bouts of advanced cancer), would she have been reconciled to dying of something else later on? Rieff asks. Biographers often get fed up with their subjects, with whom they have become grotesquely overfamiliar. I knocked on the door. She was fully aware that she would not have had the life she had if he had not taken her under his protection when he did. A pair of pliers sat on top of the TV setfor changing channels since the knob for that purpose had broken off. It is a book about dying, grieving and what it means to survive the death of a loved one. [12], Rieff has one child, a daughter (born 2006).[13]. His second wife and widow Alison Douglas Knox died December 12, 2011. Jackie Onassis. In the last days, she kind of withdrew. Coming out is at issue, in fact. "[1], G. John Ikenberry, reviewing Rieff's 2005 book At the Point of a Gun: Democratic Dreams and Armed Intervention for Foreign Affairs, called him "one of the most engaging observers of war and humanitarian emergencies in such troubled places as Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan, and Iraq". Other choices include Bach's moving . Usually this means someone who accepts dying and stops fighting it. No, not intimidated. And that may be because I didn't want to have a fight with somebody, because I didn't want to offend somebody, because I thought I'd hurt somebody's feelings, or because I just preferred that something not be known. But I also decided that I was going to leave out certain things. You're wearing a John Lennon cap. Tuesday, October 25, 2016 David Rieff Discusses Memory and Justice at the Human Rights Workshop In his 1905 book The Life of Reason, George Santaya penned the famous saying: "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." Human rights activists generally agree. And my mother enjoyed the world more than I do. But I wasn't going to say anything more. Also, I wasn't a prodigy. A lot of what I describe in this book has nothing to do with the particular personality of David Rieff, or the particular personality, let alone celebrity, of Susan Sontag. But I shall not write a biography. Geniuses are often born to parents afflicted with no such abnormality, and Sontag belongs to this group. He married his 17 year-old student Susan Sontag after 10 days of courtship in the 1950s. "Heady?" He could be terse when fielding questions about his relationship with his mother, and he became angry at the notion she suffered a "bad death." So I'm not sure it's faith vs. atheism. Are any bluntly Jewish appellations fabulous? I wanted to engage with her death in print. I've heard that your mother had a wonderful and vast collection of books in her apartment. But I'm fairly certain I would not have published them. That doesn't seem right to me. Sept. 9, 2007 12 AM PT. Anyway, I don't want to write a biography of my mother. Whatever moral or intellectual satisfaction Amry might have obtained from remembrance of his atrocity will pass on to people who were not victims . . Of course, some people of faith find it easier. It's like saying all human beings should be cheerful. That Norman Mailer has orgies? By the time of the marriage, in 1951, she had discovered that sex with men wasnt so bad. I don't know. In her later years, she had a relationship with Annie Leibovitz, whom Rieff avoids discussing in his memoir, except for one loaded comment about the photographer's "carnival images of celebrity death.". She sold her papers, including her diaries, to UCLA. We recommend . Moser accepts her grievances at face value and weaves them into his unsparing narrative. These days, there's a lot of talk about what's called "a good death." Fortunately, I don't keep my journals. Your mother was an atheist. Sign up for the Books & Fiction newsletter. Prophet of the 'Anti-Culture'. She'd gone abroad to pursue postgraduate study but also to escape a lifeless marriage. He also edited her journals and notebooks, which contained the following rules. Discover David Rieff's Biography, Age, Height, Physical Stats, Dating/Affairs, Family and career updates. She lived up to that fabulous appellation. Would Koestenbaum have stared entranced at the name Susan Rosenblatt? Rieff has at various times been a senior fellow at the World Policy Institute at the New School for Social Research,[2] a fellow at the New York Institute for the Humanities at New York University,[3] a board member of the Arms Division of Human Rights Watch,[4] of the Central Eurasia Project of the Open Society Institute,[5] and of Independent Diplomat. The demands this makes on the practitioners powers of discrimination, as well as on his capacity for sympathy, may be impossible to fulfill. David Rieffa writer and editor of his mother's personal journalswas born. Author: David Rieff. I've also met lots of people who aren't. Her father, Jack Rosenblatt, the son of uneducated immigrants from Galicia, had left school at the age of ten to work as a delivery boy in a New York fur-trading firm. People are very different in their lives and very different in their deaths. He conducted the ceremony in Victor and Annie Navasky's front room, with David Rieff and Steve Wasserman as my best of men.) How much did that contribute to her dread? Her body was just a sore from the inside of her mouth to her toes. apple.news. And she was just a sore. (When I was to be wed, I chose a rabbi named Robert Goldburg, an Einsteinian and a Shakespearean and a Spinozist, who had married Arthur Miller to Marilyn Monroe and had a copy of Marilyn's conversion certificate. By contrast, it would seem that your mother had anything but a good death. He completed college at Princeton University, graduating with an A.B. ------------------------------------------. I came across a photo of you and your mother that ran many years ago in Vogue magazine. . Although Nathan did not adopt Susan and her sister, Susan eagerly made the change that, as Moser writes, transformed the gawky syllables of Sue Rosenblatt into the sleek trochees of Susan Sontag. It was, Moser goes on, one of the first recorded instances, in a life that would be full of them, of a canny reinvention.. Mosers biography, for all its pity and antipathy, conveys the extra-largeness of Sontags life. As an admirer of The Mind of the Moralist, I was intrigued by what the newly opened question of its authorship might mean for both Rieff's and Sontag's legacies. David Rieff on the Novelist Aleksandar Tima, Whose Writing Was an Antidote to Banality and Kitsch. But I know it's preposterous. How many times have I reviled myself for that, which is only a little less offensive than my habit of name-dropping (how many times did I talk about Allen Ginsberg last year, while I was on Commentary?).. He notes Rieff's "caution and misgivings", and finds especially compelling the essay where Rieff laments the gap between the misery and violence "outside the gates of the Western world" and the obstacles that prevent the West from assembling the strength, whether military or moral, to resolve the problems. In addition to her graduate work, and caring for David, Sontag helped Rieff with the book he was writing, which was to become the classic Freud: The Mind of the Moralist. She grew increasingly dissatisfied with the marriage. I don't know if I would have destroyed them or simply left them for other people to deal with after I'm dead. In Mosers world, rewrite becomes write. And she was somebody who desperately didn't want to die. I never thought about it. In life, I dont want to be reduced to my work. Well, it sure doesn't help. Although he wasn't a Christian, his work remains one of the greatest giftseven if a complicated and challenging oneto Christians living today. Rieff is a distinguished author in his own right. Why do you think she was so dismissive of her essays? At fifteen, she wrote in her journal of the lesbian tendencies she was finding in herself. And when she spoke, she spoke about the distant past -- about her parents, about people she was involved with 30 years before. She'd sold them. That's a fact. 1. Aren't you being awfully hard on yourself? That seems just right. I think she's right. Then I flew back. But for the first time, their love affair is laid bare, as Sontag's son David Rieff admitted: "They were the worse couple I've ever seen in terms of unkindness, inability to be nice, held. She suffered like someone being tortured. One time, weren't the odds incredibly stacked against her? Sontags love life was unusual. He reports that at the time of her death, in 2004, Sontag had given no instructions about the dozens of notebooks that she had been filling with her private thoughts since adolescence and which she kept in a closet in her bedroom. Sontag will be remembered as a philosopher. I'm sure you were aware of that mystique as you were growing up, the fact that your mother cut such a distinctive figure. I mean, she didn't want to be lied to, but she wanted to live. It's a remarkably unsentimental account. Roger Deutsch, another friend, reported, If somebody like Jackie Onassis put in $2,000for a fund to help Sontag when she was ill and had no insuranceSusan would say, That woman is so rich. He published every one of her books. His books have focused on issues of immigration, international conflict, and humanitarianism. David had a car then, and I remember the four of us driving around Manhattan, four cigarettes going, the car filled with smoke and Josephs deep, rumbling voice and funny, high-pitched laugh. She remembers Sontags big, beautiful smile. She writes of trips that Sontag took her and David on whose sole purpose was enjoyment. My mother was a prodigy as a child. Rieff, in his introduction to the second volume of the diaries (As Consciousness Is Harnessed to Flesh), writes that Sontag tended to write more in her journals when she was unhappy, most when she was bitterly unhappy, and least when she was all right., Nunezwho comes across as modest and likablegives us wonderful glimpses of Sontag when she was all right. Another answer is that if I had her journals in my possession after she died, and they were simply mine to dispose of as I wished, I don't think I would have published them. She applied for and received a fellowship at Oxford, and left husband and child for a year. 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